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How We Manage a Family Weekend Schedule

Saturday is the most challenge day for a lot of families. It is a weekend, but as a parent, you need to grocery, laundry, house cleaning, if your kids having extracurricular activities, then it is not a relax day at all! My family also have a very busy day on Saturday, starting early morning with swimming lessons and music lesson till the end of business hours. (PS: I am not a tiger mom, that is all the activities they would like to attend). Here is my family weekend schedule on the busy day and all the activities are in different locations.

 Son (7 years old)Daughter (5 years old)
8:15 to 9:00 amSwimmingSwimming
10:00 to 12:00 amHockey matchDance lesson
1:00 to 3 pmRest / Library readingFlute lesson
3:30 to 5 pmFlute lessonRest / Library reading
6 pmDinner and relaxDinner and relax

Expect drop off and company kids, we try to take as much as possible for the time for other activities such as cleaning, grocery, and laundry. How did we manage the time? Here are some tips:

First, prepare you need in the evening before and put it close to the door.

Due to the short break in between classes, we will not have enough time to go back home again. So, prepare as everything in the evening before. And, let the kids do that, they know what they are going to need.

Tips: Each activity need to have a dedicated bag in case of do not mix up.

For example,

SwimmingHockeyFluteDance
Entrée pas
Towel
Changing Clothes
Hockey Sticks
Sports Shoes
Sports clothes
Socks
Mouth guard
Practice Books
Notebook
Instrument  
Clothes
Shoes
School bag

Secondly, priorities the activities with parents accompany or not.

Some activities are required parents involvement, others you just have to wait in the build or drop off. For the swimming lessons, I rather sit in the podium with a cup of coffee and relaxing to write my blog or chat with other parents. Every now and then I check how things are going in the swimming pool but only give thumb up to kids when they look at me.

Tips: For swimming, I also use the time to reply quickly for the piling up messages, online grocery, calendar updating etc.

Swimming Pool

For the hockey trainings, since it is a teamwork that requires quite some technics and cooperate with each other, we subscribe as the volunteer parents. One of us are participate in the club training for young age, so most of the time we follow with kids progress and make sure they we know if there is any body conflict as well.

Tips: Working together with other parents as well, because it is very time consuming and many kids to management. It is better to take turns with good communication.

For the music part, it is more enjoyable for us to join, to see how kids listening, developing their skills. We have little music knowledge but rather follows the teachers and taking note for homework and practice. In the meanwhile, we are there to support kids and also to compliment.

Tips: Chat with teacher a little bit more about the kids performance and progress

Playing Music

Finally, after the whole day, enjoy a family dinner outside

Note: Time including the travel time as well

Overall, here is our overall schedule on a busy Saturday, if you also have very energetic kids and they want to do everything, all I want to say that it is manageable. Both parents and kids have a relax time in-between, for example, my daughter is free after 3 pm and can start to enjoy an afternoon tea. My son has a long lunch break which he can take a nap or quiet play.

Dessert

About Me

Hi, there. I am Lin. Together with my husband and two kids, we live in the beautiful Netherlands in Europe. I am dedicated to self-development, creating quality time for the whole family, and fully supporting kids with their potentials with all I have learned from engineering, MBA, and 10+ years of working experience in the energy sector.

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